Days 2&3
Mosquito Munch Tally:7
This week, so encouragingly named "Phase 1: Culture Contrast and Change", begins with a City Hunt of New Delhi, which has been painstakingly and thoroughly organised by the students of Delhi University, who have dilligently crafted a trail of clues around tehe expansive capital city. This pursuit involves us acquainting ourselves with India's renowned rickshaws (both cycle and motor), Hindustani-tune-belting, hop-on-hop-off buses and spacious Metro system, whilst taking in sights such as the Delhi Haat market, India Tower, the Lotus and Humayan Tomb. Hard work and dilligence are, we quickly find out, integral features of the lives of our Indian peers, as the students, who walk briskly through Delhi's dusty streets in jeans and casually wipe their faces with flannels under the mid-day Indian heat, happily tell us that they hope to study up to post-grad level to become HR managers and engineers. They seem to take everything completely in their stride, flicking effortlessly from casual, easy conversation in English to briefly fierce Hindi debates with rickshaw drivers hoping to obtain a fee nearly 3x more than usual in light of their western passengers.
And this is our first important lesson in Delhi; if you look like a Westerner, Indian people will be very happy to accommodate you. Alot of them, however, will do this with a price in mind. I can honestly say that our group was not so enamoured with the "Students" of Delhi City, with particular reference to the young Pakistani resident who, on offering a small group of us directions to a local market, proceeded to take time out of whatever he may have had planned for that evening to lead the way.
"I don't want nothing from you, we are just students, we are just talking....." he tried to convince himself, having sensed our reluctance to turn a brief enquiry into a cosy chat. Cue a fifteen minute walk (which was only ever "two more minutes") in a direction which a street police officer later confirmed led nowhere, and we had solidly confirmed our original instinct; when lost, seek someone stood behind a desk in a hotel reception or tourist office. If you enjoy being taken on a merry little dance, ask any friendly stranger in the street.
By far the most joyful and also the most heart-wrenching encounters come courtesy of Delhi's children. Before jetting to these beautiful shores I had heard about the widely-held Indian belief that touching people with fair hair and comlexions is lucky and waited apprehensively, wondering how exactly I would react to this outward fascination. I like to think of myself as an open and laid-back person, but it's difficult to know how to respond to children who have clearly had it drummed into their head that fair skin is supreme or the only form of beauty. The children who ran up to me during the second day as I meandered one of Delhi's circus highways soon laid to rest my concerns, as they gleefully threw up their arms and seemed genuinely happy to run towards me, give me hearty hugs and ecstatically run off in teh other direction, squeeling with laughter as they got tangled in my floaty cardigan as they tried to make their speedy escape.
In general the children are adorable-they are happy and inquisitive without any hint of intrusion or hostility. They are equally delighted when you ask for photos with them. There are few things more humbling than the genuine contentment on their faces when all you've done is taken a photo of them and shown them. Thye happily wave and use any English words or phrases they may have learnt in school or simply out and about in Delhi's streets.
Unfortunately, no sooner have you passed a smiling child than you feel the soft fingers of a child "teasing"-stroking your arms, gently tugging your clothes, listfully following your every step, pressing themselves against your car window, verbally pleading with you for food, to buy little pens, necklaces or anything else they trail around with them on streets that most of us wouldn't want our children to see on their own. It's never easy to ignore children who are in such appalling situations, but the hard truth is that any contribution we make will only be in the cast context of poverty in India. Making a difference will involve focused, long-term action with a charity or aorganistion that works closely with Indian communities, and this is something that is definitely worth looking in to as a really erwarding line of work.
Another unfavourable selection of Delhi residents are the Rush Hour Perverts, those charming, seasoned Metro riders who create one of India's biggest contradictions. Any concept of modesty and mutual respect is quickly shattered for those female tourists who find a selection of hand pressed against chests and thighs during the fierce rush to board the home-time train. It was rather disturbing to watch members of our group dissolve into tears, having been completely unprepared and un-informed about the casual attitude of a small selection of Indian men-no doubt the same who so stringently demand modesty from their female counterparts. The truth is, as horrific as it is for us first-time visitors, this kind of horrendous disregard for other individuals is the norm for many Indian girls and women, and isn't restricted to public transport.
On the other hand it must be noted that these people are more than overshadowed by the quietly repsectful, tolerant commutors and other Indians; those who keep a wise eye on everything that's going on and won't so much as blink before insisting that their Indian peers move away, allow tourists through to the front of queues and generally restore decency in an otherwise exaggerated show of "Inexperienced, Sheltered Westeners". It was a really refreshing show of humility and patience which was so gratefully received by some slightly shell-shocked 18 year olds.
Which is where I would choose to leave my blogging activity for the time being; anything you may have heard about India, however exggerated or horrific, is likely to apply in certain areas at certain times. However the fact that I can't stress highly enough after only three days in the country is that the warmth, understanding and generousity of the majority of the Indian population speaks more than loudly enough to hold it's ground against the negatives.